Easter 2025
Lessons Learned from the Andes
First of all, to talk in a single blog about what we’ve learned over the 14 years of living in a Quechua community at 3,000 metres, seems ludicrous-- TOO MANY!
Who from? I want to give some kudos to those who spoke into our lives.
A few strong mentors helped us along the way as well as many friends who themselves encapsulated personal lessons. Al and Barb Shannon as well as John and Sheila Tuggy gave us continual orientation and guidance especially regarding the many cultural nuances in Peru’s coast, mountain, and jungle climes and especially in understanding the “ins-and-outs” of working with SIL as an organization.
Then in the mountains specifically, Profs. Leonel Alexander Menacho López and Gabriel (Don Gabïchu) Barreto Echiparra were our point-persons when it came to work through the various education ministry offices, while Don Gabïchu’s connections [“padrinazgo”] with the faraway Andean villages, granted us greater acceptance and, well, safety. Both men carried with them the same vision of service to their Quechua people, constantly reminding us why we were there and how far we had gone. I guess what I’m saying is, these people provided constant tutorials and encouragements (too many to number) that we cherish to this day.
More personally were the proteges we worked with, above all Eduardo and Tobías Mendoza Diaz. Their excitement about and dedication to the work in the communities especially Eduardo’s leadership in teaching using the various publications of short Quechua and biblical stories, as well as the Quechua songbooks, all seemed to make each day’s work that much more meaningful to me: It seemed I was having a positive impact on some people I had grown fond of and who they went on to become-- excellent teachers and mentors!
And I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention Monseñor Dante Frasnelli Tarter, OSJ, then
Catholic Bishop of the Conchucos Valley, Región Chavín, who befriended us and always welcomed us both into his offices and home. His vision for a “single Christian faith” across the Andes paralleled our vision embedded in our program logo TAYTA DYOSPA WILLACUYNINGA LLAPANTSICPÄMI [“The Word of God is for everyone”]. He was the person who authorized our training of the dozens of Catholic lay-workers (catechists) throughout the many mountain towns, culminating in the overwhelmingly successful celebration, dedication and partial distribution of the New Testament in the particular variety of South Conchucos Quechua.
Finally SIL-Peru’s staff and many administrators dedicated themselves to “keeping us safe and working”. John and Billy Mishler in Lima, were especially helpful and always concerned.
Lesson #1. The primary lesson for me of those amazing 16 years:
Whatever you do, be consistent.
Consistent in activity and in one’s character.
Example: One Sunday after shopping in Huari’s market and attending Mass, Linda and I were requested to attend apparently an impromptu meeting with Bishop Dante along with about a dozen of his Quechua priests who had gathered in Huari that particular weekend from all over the valley. The bishop explained that as he was returning from his 8 hour drive from Huaraz, he saw a couple of gringos gathering some people together in a nearby town. “I got out of my car, called them over and asked what they were doing.”
“Just reading the Bible with these people” one answered.
Bishop: “You’re not just reading to them, gentleman. You are stirring them up. You wish to start another congregation; another church. Doesn’t the Bible say that there’s only one church? You are being divisive and separatist.” They were dumbfounded and really couldn’t respond.
Then in the meeting in front of all those priests the Bishop turned to Linda and I and said, “But Randy, you don’t do that. You claim the Bible is for everyone and you are here to stand along side us. Thank you for doing that!”
What would have happened if we had somehow changed our methods and not kept our word? Chaos!
Lesson #2. Be mindful; have perspective: Walk a mile in their shoes.
The saying "walk a mile in another man's shoes" originates from the Cherokee Native Americans, who would say, "Don't judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes (moccasins)". This proverb emphasizes the importance of understanding someone's perspective and situation before passing judgment. Harper Lee's novel To Kill a Mockingbird popularized a similar sentiment: "You never really know a man until you understand things from his point of view, until you climb around in his skin and walk around in it".
From the first day we arrived in Peru (July, 1986) we saw a different world from what either of us grew up in. We saw crime, poverty, corruption, and disease up close. It shook us. It’s no wonder that 80% of development workers return home to stay after the first 4 years of service.
Once, after a church service, we were walking down Arequipa Ave. in Lima and saw someone grab something from the neck of a fellow SIL worker and run off. It was a necklace her mother had gifted her. I reacted and ran after him through kiosk stalls until he turned back and bumped right up against me and I held out my hand, “Dámelo” and he spat the necklace out of his mouth. I looked it him angrily then saw a desperation in him, more than fear. I let him go. Many afterwards said what I did was wrong; that I should have shaken him up and called a cop or perhaps preached at him. I was just happy that my colleague recovered her necklace and was unharmed. Could I ever become so desperate as to steal? I wondered.
The “situation-ethic” of how to handle poverty in Peru haunted us every day. We developed what have become natural responses we use to this day. If someone, for example, asks for money, I ask why. If they say “For food” or “I’m hungry,” then I take the time to go with them to buy something nutritious (but not expensive). Also, Linda and I still carry cans of tuna in our car so that, when someone at a stoplight walks among the cars and asks for a handout, we have a full meal (and cheap!) to offer them. At least it’s something.
Lesson #3: Stay humble.
Our years actually living in a Quechua community and participating in their activities and festivals has given us many life lessons. Our very manner of communication had begun to change, perhaps softening the way we say something and perhaps with less pride, even arrogance.
This was confirmed when we were in Fort George Baptist Church in Prince George, BC Canada sharing in a small Sunday evening group, mostly of Canadian First Nations men and women (Babine Carrier and others). We were talking about working with Quechuas, struggling with them, yet seeing meagre results. Two or three first nations men were standing in the back, with their arms crossed in front of their chests. But as I explained the struggles and the wins, they slowly lowered their arms and began to nod their heads. You see, it wasn’t so much what I said as “how” I said it. They identified the pain of our experience.
These lessons and mentors have served us well as we navigated both re-integration into Calgary and then retirement into Mexico. May we remain consistent, mindful, and humble.